Consult a counselor to help you work through your lack of ambition. Simply click here to find one now. I get it. I get the feelings of emptiness, the feeling of pointlessness, even the hell of having given it your all and failed. I get the unhappiness , the self-recrimination, the fear, the frustration, the confusion, and the sick irony that you know you would be amazing if the world made even just a little sense.
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How do you date someone with no ambition? - Tiny Buddha
Laziness is the mark of an immature man. Not in life and definitely not in your relationship. Being with him is more like taking care of a child emotionally and financially than having a boyfriend. Do you really want to sign yourself up for that responsibility? He wants everything in his life to just come to him on its own. He just wants sex, because most of the time that comes easy. You knew who he was when you got into this, so why would you expect him to be anything other than lazy as hell?
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He's cute, fun, smart and you can't stop thinking about him. You're already three steps ahead of the game, mentally planning weddings, children and that giant house with the white picket fence. Finally, after all these years, the perfect relationship has finally been found. Happily ever after sure feels good, huh? Not so fast.
A few months ago, a dear something friend of mine recounted her experience working with a leadership coach provided by her organization as part of a leadership development program. Being a coach myself, we shared a good chuckle on that one. Displaying a lack of traditional ambition can be anathema to a successful corporate career. Success to her was happiness at her job.