After continuous texting with the same guy for weeks, you've come to conclude that his repetitive AWOL nature may be due to one thing: He's only into you because he's lonely. It's easy to fall into a relationship with someone who may not be in it or into you for the right reasons. Sometimes, you're just a placeholder. Or, in this case, maybe your dude just has no one else to turn to. If you suspect that you might just be a time-filler for the guy you're currently seeing, your intuition may be trying to tell you something. Unfortunately, it may be time to find a better match.
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Men who complain that they are unlucky in love despite their 'nice guy' persona may have a sinister agenda. The so-called 'Nice Guy', the often physically unattractive man who overcompensates with clingy and over-the-top behaviour to women, is relentlessly mocked online. Dr Robert Glover , who's studied the issue, says these men are often trying to form "covert contracts" with the target of their affections. In other words, they might use kindness to try and make up for what they lack elsewhere. The idea is that if you meet someone's needs without them having to ask, they should meet yours. Dr Glover said: "Others typically do not realise these contracts exist and are often surprised when the Nice Guy lashes out at their failure to keep their end of the deal. And when things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place.
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Fellas, if you're in your 50s, single and dating and feeling like you're not getting anywhere , consider this a little friendly feedback from the ladies. Maybe you've heard it all before, maybe it doesn't apply to you, maybe you've got the dating thing down -- it doesn't matter. When it comes to women and dating, I say you can never know enough.
Hugh Hefner had a mansion filled with models and actresses. Donald Trump is married to a supermodel. How do they attract women like that? You need to think like an alpha male. Evolutionary psychology has provided mountains of data on why women choose the mates they do… and it all boils down to one thing:.